Resolving Disagreements course for grades 6-8

Preview Vector Solutions’ Resolving Disagreements course for grades 6-8.

Video Transcript:

No one wants to be in an argument with anyone, especially with a friend or someone close to us. So how do we go about fixing things together to make things right when we disagree?

Well, there are certain general themes that apply to almost any disagreement.

The exact words we use may be different, just as each situation and the people involved will be different, but we’ll discuss some of the keys.

Let’s look at how Maria handles her disagreement with Nicole when Maria refuses to leave a party to go to their friend Anthony’s house.

I really don’t want to, Nicole. Quit being a baby about this. Why are you always so worried about everything? Nicole, please don’t call me names. I know you want some time for us to hang out with Anthony, and I do too. I just don’t wanna lie to my parents. What if we all hang out tomorrow afternoon if they say it’s okay?

The first thing Maria did was to set limits when she said, please don’t call me names. Nobody deserves to be treated with meanness, name calling, or disrespect.

If that happens, express yourself openly but respectfully.

Also, be sure to show some understanding. Admitting you understand doesn’t mean that you necessarily agree, only that you can see the other person’s point of view.